tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6350479341234653817.post9191871101120581504..comments2023-05-15T06:09:22.677-06:00Comments on Desperately Seeking...Me (FKA: This One Time, At Band Camp...): Yep - I feel like a FRAUD!Libbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00560943513123616515noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6350479341234653817.post-29224249395923834422011-01-16T20:42:55.728-07:002011-01-16T20:42:55.728-07:00I totally know what you are going through!! Before...I totally know what you are going through!! Before getting the lapband I tried everything imaginable to lose weight. I ended up waiting 3 years before finally making my final decision to get the band after my co-worker got the band, and had amazing results. She was very open and told everyone in the office she was getting it. Some people were supportive and there were a few too many who were against it, and just didn't understand. Because people talk in the office, I already knew I didn't feel comfortable telling people I was going to get it as well. So my excuse for losing weight is that I'm just really taking advantage of the gym and personal trainer we have at work. No one knows that I have the band but my husband, sister, and 2 friends from work who I trust. When I felt like I needed support, I reached out to the blogging community for advice, resources and just reading everyone's experiences is so helpful. I haven't really felt like it was anyone business how I lost the weight, and like Mimi said above, maybe once we lose more weight and feel more comfortable, we'll tell more people, but for now, I'm with you and my band is my business, and I don't feel bad about it one bit :) Good Luck Friend!!<br /><br />- Jess<br />thechangingcaterpillar.blogspot.comThe Hungry Caterpillarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04324189349115645702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6350479341234653817.post-90737390922227462122010-12-28T16:14:20.475-07:002010-12-28T16:14:20.475-07:00I did that at first, now that I have lost 116 poun...I did that at first, now that I have lost 116 pounds, I tell everyone. You will feel more comfortable about it later. Plus, Weight Watchers was so good for support, so enjoy it! <br /><br />Mimi <br /><br />http://thebigfatbet.blogspot.com/TheBigFatBethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08399371623672792211noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6350479341234653817.post-89652250110505155092010-12-19T09:49:18.891-07:002010-12-19T09:49:18.891-07:00(Thank you for becoming a follower to my blog!).
I...(Thank you for becoming a follower to my blog!).<br />It's terrible that people should make us feel guilty for having a lapband - like being an alcoholic on a desert island and on returning to civilisation being told you're not really a recovering alcoholic because you cheated... But as Tina says, you need to be able to conceal what you want to conceal - it is entirely your own business. I have to admit I'm getting a bit tired of people looking me up and down and saying "And? How are you getting on?" when progress is very slow...<br />Lots of luck to you.<br />CarolineLonicerahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13141723287143567146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6350479341234653817.post-71586998842184337342010-12-14T06:06:51.350-07:002010-12-14T06:06:51.350-07:00Weight Watchers as a beard. . . too funny!
Don...Weight Watchers as a beard. . . too funny!<br /><br />Don't judge yourself too harshly here; it's not a bad thing to not want people in your business over a health issue, especially one in which said people tend to forget that it's none of their business.Lylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09330598009302675050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6350479341234653817.post-44430509027927991372010-12-13T21:19:15.587-07:002010-12-13T21:19:15.587-07:00I am a blabbermouth but don't even think I don...I am a blabbermouth but don't even think I don't worry about what people think :) I tell them but I have gotten some discussion from people about how it doesn't work or how it is the easy way out. I have carefully worked on my responses in support of the band and do so for three reasons: 1. It is too much work to remember my cover. 2. It is too obvious that the amount I eat at any one time is way less than what most people eat. 3. I do hope that my sharing will help others around me who also might take advantage of the band to help them.<br /><br />Bottom line though is you should only share what you feel comfortable with. You are more comfortable keeping it to yourself and you should honor those needs.<br /><br />xxxoooTinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16965135571189867376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6350479341234653817.post-36003404205293958422010-12-13T19:23:15.784-07:002010-12-13T19:23:15.784-07:00Don't feel bad - a lot of us choose to only te...Don't feel bad - a lot of us choose to only tell people that we trust and who will support us. I only told family and a few friends - no one at work. It just opens up a lot of judgment and watching eyes. Someday you may choose to tell more people, but you need to do what is comfortable for you now.Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045822533798781579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6350479341234653817.post-61275192364042078222010-12-13T19:02:13.148-07:002010-12-13T19:02:13.148-07:00I don't think you have a thing to feel badly a...I don't think you have a thing to feel badly about. It's your body and your decisions. You need to do whatever it is that makes you feel comfortable - I think it's a brilliant cover!Readhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13065650807764320970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6350479341234653817.post-16377612194812591652010-12-13T17:34:16.052-07:002010-12-13T17:34:16.052-07:00You need to do what ever you need to in order to b...You need to do what ever you need to in order to be comfortable. I can definitely see the hesitancy with a new job. I am open with mine, but it is mainly because I am the world's worst liar! I kind of wish I wouldn't have told as many people at this point, before I have had any major success,especially those that are only co-workers, and not real close to me. Don't get me wrong, if they were to ask I would tell them, but I wish I wouldn't have voluntarily offered the info. I hate trying to live up to everyone's expectations, it's hard enough trying to live up to my own!Justawallflowerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17735468144410586496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6350479341234653817.post-21643546534619949282010-12-13T17:03:47.700-07:002010-12-13T17:03:47.700-07:00Ditto---with silverhairedgoddess' response---I...Ditto---with silverhairedgoddess' response---I too say I am following WW-----weird!Darlin1https://www.blogger.com/profile/15336353483395974173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6350479341234653817.post-34131524811832862682010-12-13T16:46:53.176-07:002010-12-13T16:46:53.176-07:00You shouldn't feel any shame about that. I bl...You shouldn't feel any shame about that. I blogged about the same thing about a month back. For me, I told people who I knew who could honor and support my decision. I didn't need people to police me or second guess me. Its a hard life change/transition that has to do with your health.<br /><br />I know a lot of bandsters join WW for regular accountability. <br /><br />Don't feel shame...just pride in the fact that you are proactively working to improve your health. I think that is wonderful.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10594536445697602339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6350479341234653817.post-54978033836378435582010-12-13T16:21:44.469-07:002010-12-13T16:21:44.469-07:00I don't think there is anything wrong with not...I don't think there is anything wrong with not telling people that you have the lap band - I am doing the same thing! When we feel it is right, then we can do it. I am not embarrassed, just feel its no ones business but mine. that's why I started this blog so I could talk about it to people that are going thru the same experience as me and who understand why I did it! <br /><br />When people ask what I am doing to loose the weight, I just tell them counting calories and exercising - which is true - just haven't explained that I have a secret weapon, ha ha !<br /><br />Congrats on the 2.3 pound loss!Silverhairedgoddesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10328941381121552421noreply@blogger.com