Monday, March 28, 2011

I'm Still Here

And I'm still stuck.  I reached the magic 199 and stalled out.  I think it might have to do with some upheaval in my life.  Things have not been good for a while and my husband and I are talking about the "D" word.  Something needs to change, I'm just not sure what and when.  Needless to say, it makes it very hard to concentrate on doing the things I need to do for myself.  I need to get unstuck.  I need to move forward.  I need to start to take care of me again.  I need... a lot, I guess.

9 comments:

Sarah G said...

((big hugs))

Sarah said...

Sorry to hear you are having a hard time. Hang in there and try to stay positive. Taking care of yourself is very important.

Justawallflower said...

So sorry about your personal troubles. I hope it all works out for the best, what ever that may be. But don't neglect your health. Hang in there and take care of you. (((hugs)))

Lap Band Groupie said...

Oh Libby, I'm so sorry you're going through this...and you're right, you need to focus on you right now and what you need. ((hugs))

Libby said...

Thanks for the kind words folks. I'm workin on it.

Rhonda said...

I'm sorry you're having problems, Libby. :( You can vent to us any time you need, we're here to listen.

I read somewhere that 50% of marriages end after weight loss surgery, not that I'm saying yours will, but maybe he's just feeling insecure and that's leading to problems? Just a thought. *hugs!*

Amanda Kiska said...

So sorry you guys are having a tough time of it. I hope things get better for you soon.

Gen said...

Libby, I am so sorry to hear this. You need to take care of you, that's for sure. Do what you have to do. Be kind to yourself. Don't beat yourself up for not losing during this difficult time. The weight will come off. Keep blogging and email any time you like.

Tina said...

Well i am sure you have heard it all but i am sorry for everything you are going thru. Sometime screaming out loud helps. (atleast for a bit) ((hugs))